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		<title>Toxic Relationships: Recognizing Key Signs</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2013/01/06/toxic-relationships-recognizing-key-signs/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2013 22:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is a toxic relationship? A toxic relationship is any relationship we have with another person that makes us feel drained, anxious or less then. Instead of building us up and making us feel good about ourselves, these relationships break us down in subtle and not so subtle ways. We can have toxic relationships with...]]></description>
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		<title>The DSM-5: Update to Changes</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/12/29/the-dsm-5-update-to-changes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2012 16:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The DSM-5 is the main tool clinicians- and insurance companies- use to code mental health conditions. It&#8217;s also a highly controversial scientific manual for in addition to codifying mental health issues, it often stigmatizes the people who are diagnosed. On December 1, 2012, the American Psychiatric Association&#8217;s board of trustees approved the newest version. This...]]></description>
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		<title>Asperger&#8217;s Syndrome</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/12/16/aspergers-syndrome/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2012 15:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As the facts of the Sandy Hook tragedy come to the fore, we are learning more and more details of the Lanza family&#8217;s life. A New York Times article suggests that the son may have suffered from Asperger&#8217;s Syndrome which is a psychological condition that impacts a person&#8217;s ability to empathize with or find compassion...]]></description>
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		<title>Talking to Your Kids About Tragedies: Age Appropriate Guidelines</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/12/15/tragedy-and-your-kids-talk-to-them-in-age-appropriate-ways/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/12/15/tragedy-and-your-kids-talk-to-them-in-age-appropriate-ways/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2012 01:45:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many parents mistakenly assume they can shield their children from the tragedies that occur in the world around them. Unless they live in a hermetically sealed bubble, they cannot. Children, no matter what their age, are incredibly intuitive. They feel what&#8217;s going on- especially when what&#8217;s going on makes them feel threatened and unsafe. For...]]></description>
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		<title>Signs and Symptoms of Habitual Liars</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/12/03/signs-and-symptoms-of-habitual-liars/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/12/03/signs-and-symptoms-of-habitual-liars/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 15:05:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ugh. We all know at least one. Those people who lie all the time for no apparent reason. Why do folks do this and what to look for in figuring out who is a habitual liar? Symptoms of habitual liars: 1) Low self esteem: They don&#8217;t feel good enough so they create lives based on...]]></description>
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		<title>Is Your Child a Narcissist?</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/10/10/is-your-child-a-narcissist/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/10/10/is-your-child-a-narcissist/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2012 13:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We live in a narcissistically driven society. Our kids, products of a Facebook culture that promotes celebration and aggrandizement of Self, and reality television that presents distorted and self obsessed role models, threatens their emotional development. In this great article, Dr. Karyl McBride highlights some of issues parents need to be on the look out...]]></description>
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		<title>Divorce Step Family Style: Dr. Hokemeyer quoted in New York Times</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/10/04/divorce-step-family-style-dr-hokemeyer-quoted-in-new-york-times/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/10/04/divorce-step-family-style-dr-hokemeyer-quoted-in-new-york-times/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2012 13:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In today&#8217;s Style section of the New York Times, Elissa Gootman penned a great article on how to negotiate relationships with step children in a divorce. I&#8217;m honored that she closed the article on a positive, up beat note that contained my discussion of how in the midst of the turmoil, make sure you are...]]></description>
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		<title>Is your Honey Cheating on You?: 6 Things to Look For</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/10/02/is-your-honey-cheating-on-you-6-things-to-look-for/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/10/02/is-your-honey-cheating-on-you-6-things-to-look-for/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Oct 2012 13:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Think your honey is cheating on you. Trust your instincts and check out this great article by Dr. Susan Perry to find 6 clues to help you find out: 6 Clues to Your Partner&#8217;s Future Infidelity His shirt needn&#8217;t smell of perfume for you to guess. Published on July 23, 2011 by Susan K. Perry, Ph.D. in Creating...]]></description>
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		<title>&#8216;Smiles&#8217; linked to teen deaths</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/09/28/smiles-linked-to-teen-deaths/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/09/28/smiles-linked-to-teen-deaths/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2012 15:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Latest designer drug called &#8216;Smiles&#8217; linked to teen deaths By Stephanie Pappas Published September 24, 2012 in Fox News.com LiveScience Law enforcement officials and parents are concerned about the next in a long line of illegal synthetic drugs: 2C-I, also known as &#8220;Smiles.&#8221; The drug, a hallucinogen, has been linked to two deaths in East...]]></description>
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		<title>Managing Transition and Change</title>
		<link>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/09/04/managing-transaction/</link>
		<comments>http://www.drhokemeyer.com/2012/09/04/managing-transaction/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2012 13:16:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Transitions can be surprisingly hard – here are suggestions for coping. Published on May 15, 2010 by F. Diane Barth, L.C.S.W. in Off the Couch &#8220;Deirdre* spent her spring semester in another country. As she prepared to come home, she emailed me to set up an appointment &#8220;soon after I get back. It&#8217;ll give me something to hang...]]></description>
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